Remembered for her compassion, service and joy.
August 24, 1937 – July 16, 2025
Patricia “Patti” Balanky, a beloved wife, mother, sister, friend and humanitarian, passed away peacefully on July 16, 2025, at the age of 87. Patti’s warmth, humor and boundless compassion touched all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Patti was born in Pasadena, California and met the love of her life, David Balanky, while he was on shore leave in San Diego from the U.S. Navy. He was introduced to Patti by her cousin – David’s shipmate. On the day he met Patti, David famously declared, “I’m going to marry that girl.” Just three months later, he did exactly that. They raised three kids on-campus at FSU while David was a student and circus performer in the Flying High Circus. They then settled in Jacksonville Florida where David’s family has resided for nearly 100 years. This past November, they celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary.
A retired nurse and natural healer, Patti devoted her life to the well-being of others. Alongside David, she made 22 humanitarian trips to Haiti, working closely with Dr. John Lovejoy and the Crudem Foundation to support the construction and furnishing of a hospital and orthopedic lab. Their efforts saved hundreds of lives, particularly in the aftermath of the devastating earthquake in 2010. Patti’s enduring spirit of service and kindness left an indelible mark on the Haitian communities she served. She and David were also dedicated docents at the Cummer Museum of Art and Gardens, teaching kids to appreciate art.
Known as the family historian, Patti had a brilliant memory and could recall even the smallest details of friends, family stories and milestones. Her love for her family was unmatched, and her laughter and light filled every room she entered.
She is survived by her devoted husband David; her children Michelle, Vincent, and Michael (Gayle); her grandchildren Chase (Jennifer), Evan (Brittany); and her great-grandchildren Nyah and Della Joy as well as sisters Jacque, Victoria and Kathy and extended family Jeannine Balanky, Hannah Daughtry, Ed Houstoun (Linda) and many beloved nieces, nephews, and lifelong friends.
